This week has been a huge eye opening experience into my own lack of depth in relationships. Mind you, I have always been a bit of a “fall off the face of the earth” person. You spend your life with those around you and since I moved a lot in my college, post college, starting my career, early marriage section of life (about ages 19 to, well, last Thanksgiving), it was a survival technique. I needed to spend time with those around me and the long distance relationships kind of took a back seat. It didn’t mean that I loved those individuals any less but we would just not talk for months. With some people we would pick up where we left off and others couldn’t take it and the relationship suffered.
This week has included spending time with an old employer, people I considered friends, but now realize I never knew, new relationships, realizing what a gem my husband is, and the finishing of The Shack by Wm. Paul Young.
My old boss asked me almost a year ago to help with a worship conference in
I have realized how lucky I am to still be a part of this company and in this persons circle. Since “leaving” I have taken day jobs for Paul’s company, worked conferences, spent 3 months working from
1. He is ever evolving, always learning, always reading and constantly looking for the next way to improve his skills, his company and his person.
2. He forgets the bad. Why waste time remembering it.
3. Is encouraging and supportive to his employees. Why tear down those whose job is to make you look better?
4. Loyal to his own detriment. Will bend over backwards to take care of clients, friends and whoever else needs it.
Is your boss like this? Would you travel across the country because they said they needed you? Would they say they needed you? What does that relationship look like on your end?
What are other ways you know you have a great boss?